I can be both….

There was some discussion today as to whether a submissive could also be a masochist. Yes, definitely. I understand that some are submissive and think of themselves as “service” subs/slaves. However, there are just as many slaves/submissives that are masochists. It can blend and be very rewarding for both. It just depends on each persons wants, needs, expectations, etc. This is another good reason to get to know your partner very well before commiting.

I’ve had an okay day – just tried to keep busy and not THINK too much about anything. I had a nice phone call today from One who i’ve recently met. We talked extensively a few days ago about what we are, what we want, what we like and dislike. I have to say that i am quite intrigued.  We are going to meet for lunch on Saturday and talk more. It was so nice just to talk to someone who “gets” me. It will be good for me to get out of this apartment and into the sunshine.  

Yes!